Welcome to the website of Ruby May, international illuminatrix, dream-weaver and purveyor of permission and possibilities...
Ruby offers events and sessions around the world on the theme of intimacy, play and authentic expression, weaving together spaces where we can find the magic in the mundane, the sacred in the profane, our power in our deepest vulnerability, and witness our magnificence unfold…
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Kai Ehrhardt & I are delighted to announce another Authentic Eros :: Beyond Gender introduction weekend, followed by a one year training, starting in February 2016!
Where in your everyday life do you have the time and space to deeply connect to yourself, exploring questions, desires, interests and issues around your self, sex and intimacy? Where can you discover your body as a gate into more aliveness, pleasure and meaning? Where can you experiment with new steps towards passion, vulnerability and power; or inquire about Eros as a phenomenon beyond sexuality – the expression of life and spirit in you, others and the world around you?
Authentic Eros provides such a space.
Elsewhere is an evolving experiment in permission, creative participation and conscious connection. A temporary portal of possibility where a group of strangers come together to enter into the unknown and allow the truth of each moment to unfold…
What happens when we elevate each other through the medium of play? When the wanton and wild meet self-responsibility and self-awareness? Who are we when we dare to reveal our most unguarded self?
You are warmly invited on a journey deep into the human psyche and heart: an embodied exploration of the nature of eros and desire, our relationship to power, vulnerability and the simple beauty of play.
In Love and Service is a weekend workshop exploring the erotic alchemy of female dominance and male service* and its potential for pleasure, expansion and personal and collective healing.
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Women in the Woods is a weekend retreat, designed for all wildness loving women, to take time out of every day life and draw replenishment and inspiration from the woods.
Led by wild artist and forest school practitioner Philippa Snell, and women’s embodiment and empowerment coach Ruby May, the weekend will offer a guided journey into nature connection, sacred ceremony and wild, artistic expression. Find out more…
“What is wild cannot be bought or sold, borrowed or copied.
Unmistakeable, unforgettable, unshamable, elemental as earth and ice, water, fire and air, a quintessence, pure spirit, resolving into no constituents.
Don’t waste your wildness: it is precious and necessary.“
– Jay Griffiths
I currently offer a variety of different one-to-one sessions to men, both in person in Berlin, and internationally via Skype. These vary from intimacy coaching sessions to exploring your kink sessions.
A session is an opportunity to invest in your own self-discovery, pleasure, fulfilment and growth. It is an invitation to experience a space free from judgements and expectations, where you can allow yourself to be guided and experience the power of someone holding the space just for you.
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Wow. Wow. Wow. Such an indescribably beautiful and powerful (and fun!!!) experience. What a precious gift you are Ruby May. Such an honor to witness you lovingly encourage and hold space for each person to embrace themselves as their own precious gift. Truly extraordinaryJustine Speed
Ruby May creates profoundly safe spaces for people to explore themselves, their desires, their sexuality and the possibilities of play. Through her presence she offers permission for participants to go deeper into the truth of who they are, in all its messy marvellousness. Offering no easy answers, she creates spaces where our humanity can shine and we can open up to each other with our vulnerability, our magnificence and our complexity intact. I highly recommend Ruby to anyone who wants to become a richer, deeper, shinier version of themselves.
Ruby has such a deeply heart held way of facilitating, like the air that you don’t notice keeps you alive. She radiates and is an invisible weaver. I saw profound shifts in both myself and others that are deep and expansive.Lotus Kruse
Ruby is an inspired and inspiring leader. In the workshops I have attended with her, I have found myself able to connect with issues that terrified me at the outset. Her gentle and thoughtful approach is clearly the result of years of study and experience. And yet she manages to hold space with a light touch and a sense of joy and humour.Cara
The fusion of sacred sex with conscious BDSM is the new frontier of sexual and spiritual growth. Ruby and her team are the perfect caring, creative, and courageous facilitators to nurture and expand this work.Barbara Carellas
All my chakras have aligned, my heart has burst open like a ripe peach. This has been a remarkably quick but deep journey through resistance, old prejudices and isolation. At 61, I have opened to more aliveness, joy and potential.Avalyn
As I keep going over my experiences this weekend I discover that in addition to the actual focus of the workshop, I’ve also learned a ton of healthy habits about how to interact with other people on a number of levels. From a professional level as a facilitator or teacher, to a personal level as a supporter or witness to the private level of how to communicate with an intimate partner with body, breath, voice and eyes. Life lessons. This all has immense value to me.Martin
The level of trust and intimacy, astounded me and gave me permission to explore those parts of myself that are often hidden. Not only to explore, but to celebrate them, be nourished by them. I danced with the reality of my illusions, I found joy and laughter in my vulnerability, I transformed my shame into strength. Forever gratefulSido